1. Different people have different perspective. I too have compared the skirt to my dark blue+black items.
2. This transaction was extremely unpleasant for me too as the buyer had continuously insulted my moral values and made sarcastic remarks.
3. I compromised and requested for both parties to meet up face to face so no one had to cover any postage fee. However, the buyer refused and seem to hint that i was totally irresponsible for the return fees.