Energy flows back and forth between you and another. However, a cord of attachment is not the flow of unconditional love. A cord of attachment by definition is negative and contributes a unique set of difficulties to your energy system. When you are corded in an unhealthy way to someone, these bonds can negatively impact all aspects of your life. For example, your behavior may be influenced or controlled by the person you are negatively bonded to. You may be easily manipulated, feel stuck, depressed, have low energy levels or simply feel bad in the other person’s presence. In this case it is important to remove the cords to improve your emotional, spiritual and physical well-being. F.A.Q When is it appropriate to cut cords of attachment? Cord Cutting is useful when you are corded to someone in an unhealthy way that negatively impacts your spiritual, physical, mental or emotional well being. Is cord cutting painful? No a cord cutting is not painful. In fact it’s quite freeing. The emotional release can sometimes let go of pent up anger, sadness or other strong emotions that may be attached to the cords. Oftentimes, you will feel lighter and more at peace. How many people can I cut cords from during a session? Because of the amount of emotional energy it takes to release cords, it is recommended that you work with one situation at a time, although we can cut more than one cord per session if time allows. How long do cords last? Usually, a cord of attachment will be part of your aura for the rest of your lifetime unless you remove it. Even if the person at the other end is deceased, the energy pattern in the cord remains active. Does cutting a cord of attachment ever hurt the person at the other end? No, not when the procedure is done properly. The other person is not affected unless that person also receives a cord of attachment session as well. The point of the cord cutting is to free and empower you, because you are the person who has requested this kind of help. If a cord is cut, how long before it comes back? When this procedure is done properly, it will not come back. Do you cut cords of attachment between people who want to stay married? Most of the time, this is the case. The majority of cord-cuttings facilitated are between couples or blood relatives, like a parent and child. You receive a fresh start, with more opportunity than before to design the kind of relationship you desire. Will cutting a cord of attachment turn a bad relationship into a good one? No. Each person in a relationship has free will. Cutting a cord of attachment just frees you from psychic level energy that can distort your life. When this procedure is done properly, results can improve all of your relationships, including your relationship with yourself. Could cutting a cord of attachment be helpful in cases of sexual abuse? Absolutely, these are among the most dramatic results with clients. It’s not unusual for rape or incest to leave psychological scars that seem permanent. Could cutting a cord of attachment help when someone we love has died? Any time you hear people talk about “the pain that will be with me for the rest of my life” there is probably a cord of attachment involved. Until that cord is cut, the pain can continue to hurt. Could this help if I had a divorce? Absolutely, cutting a cord of attachment can make the difference between mourning a loss for the rest of your life versus getting back your power and your life. How does cutting a cord compare with having psychotherapy over a relationship? Therapy is indispensable. Yet it is no substitute for having the energy link removed, so that you have more clarity as a person who can make choices. This technique is an excellent supplement to therapy. In fact, I have noticed that clients who use a combination of therapy (spiritual counseling) and energy work have best results. Does every relationship result in a cord of attachment? No, a cord cutting is not necessary for every relationship you have. Can a cord cutting be done via distance? Yes, cutting a cord of attachment can be done in person or via telephone. Most people need more than one cord cutting, so the Ultimate Toxic Energy Release is perfect for cutting multiple cords.